Josine on poverty and shame: 'The biggest barrier is admitting you can't manage on your own'
Poverty and financial worries are closer than we often think. The number of people, including those in work, who struggle to make ends meet is rising. The impact on wellbeing is significant, at home and at work. For Josine, Coordinator Strategic Partners & Projects Netherlands at Vebego Foundation, it is essential to make this topic discussable.
Sent from pillar to post
In her work, Josine sees that people often seek help too late. ‘People feel they are sent from pillar to post. Sadly, that is often true. They are also afraid of the consequences if they admit that, for now, they can’t keep everything afloat.'
That barrier means it takes an average of five years before someone asks for help. ‘But in those five years, the situation usually gets worse. Problems pile up and the solutions become more complex.’
Breaking through shame
Through Vebego Foundation, Josine tries to make that first step easier. ‘The biggest barrier is admitting you can’t manage on your own. We help, anonymously if needed, to remove that sense of shame and to show that help does exist. Help that is designed to keep people in control of their own lives.'
'The biggest barrier is admitting you can't manage on your own.'
Recognizing the signs
According to Josine, there are many possible signs that may point to financial stress. ‘It differs from person to person. Sometimes you notice changes in behavior or personal care. Other times it’s practical things, like borrowing money more often, asking for an advance, or coming to work without lunch. Being alert to these signals can make a real difference.
Reaching families through their children
The partnership with Sam& for all children plays an important role. 'People are less likely to ask for help for themselves, but they will sooner do so for their children. That is often our way in. For the children we can arrange support straight away. Through them we enter into conversation with the partners. Then we can look for solutions together, for example through budget coaching, debt assistance or contact with the municipal neighborhood team.
'People are less likely to ask for help for themselves, but they will sooner do so for their children.'
A message to colleagues
Finally, Josine has a clear message for all Vebego colleagues: ‘Asking for help is nothing to be ashamed of. Anyone can face a period with less income, for example after a divorce, illness, or the death of a partner. By making this discussable, we can support each other and make a difference together.’
